When Personal Growth clashes with Relationships

QJ Yu @ Conscious Rewiring

A.

Do you know?

If you are truly growing effectively, you will experience frustration in your current relationships?

It's a side effect of you being able to grow effectively.

B.

Unfortunately, I see people being stuck with the growth pains.

Once they grow a bit, they experience the loneliness and frustration of "the lack of awareness" of others - and they start to go bitter about the whole journey again.

They get trapped in bitterness for a long time.

Some even retreat - because they don't see a way out.

C.

Growth isn’t just about expansion - it comes with loneliness, frustration, and the weight of seeing more than others do.

You may no longer be understood by people around you.You may start to notice how others move through life without realizing the impact they create.

Knowing what you know -

will you still walk the path of growth - with all its pain, but also its unmatched rewards?

D.

One good news of choosing growth anyway is, you will build more options.

You can either leave the relationship that is no longer working for you - that's the easier option; or you can transform your relationship into higher alignment (assuming the other person is for it as well).

E.

From personal experience, I can tell you, transforming a relationship from old paradigms into new paradigms is a most fulfilling and liberating experience one can have.

The other side of judgement is empathy; the other side of loneliness is upgraded relationships and new joys.

You are not just growing yourself now. You are uplifting your community.

And that is where your legacy takes place.